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This was emotional damage n it was draining….

A father and a husband n chose to drop everything,

Hi everybody! I have been looking at posts on narcs and narc abuse on here and if has really helped me out a lot. I am currently struggling with my situation and need some advice/support. I met a narc last year, everything seemed to good to be true. Love bombing, always texting calling and taking me on dates. Everything changed when someone warned me about him out in public in front of him and who he is. This caused a conflict with us and the love bombing seized. he would tell me that everything is okay and i can come and talk. He would set a time limit on me and kick me out after that. he would then text me like everything was fine and we hung out again and after that he completely ghosted me for one week. He came back and texted me a week later laughing about the ghosting and acting like nothing had happened. he continued to text me ( not like in the beginning) make plans with me, then on the day of the plans he would just ghost me. One day he would act interested the next silence. i contacted him a month later and he acted like nothing happened. He was on a vacation and sent me a picture of another woman ( someone he allegedly met on the trip) to strike a reaction but i never gave him one. After the trip he came to my place and was extremely rude, accusing me of going on dates with a bunch of men. The next day he accused me of being an alcoholic and that he wanted nothing to do with me but said well maybe we can be "friends" then ghosted me i assumed at this point it was over and i would never hear from him again. He contacted me on the holiday a month later acting like everything was great. We ended up hanging out a month or so later and when we hung out it went well, i thought things were going in the right direction. after we hung out.. silence. I would try to text him and if he replied it would be very short then he just stopped replying. He ghosted me for almost three months. I thought he was done this time and of course he popped up again like nothing happened. At this point i was getting sick of if so i questioned him as to why he dissapeared and always does this. Of course he had some sob story about a injury and family member dying of cancer. I felt pity for him and he gave me an apology.. so i took him back stupidly. things seemed to be going smooth for a couple months, of course until his family member died and his injury got better he never contacted me and was distant. Menawhile, i was there for him during the difficult time for him. He lied to me about the funeral and never wanted to chat. I was chasing him and he would always claim nothing was wrong but when i said i thought he used me when he was down he could not handle it and would always tell me he didnt care and to go away. I would get so upset i would try texting him to work it out he would barelt respond and if he did he would not be nice about it. we did hang out a couple times after that, he would ignore me after. One day i was like hey i think you are seeing someone else, and i was like well ixam seeing someone so no problem if you are he said " buy bye good luck with your new guy stop contacting me" i was devastated and tried to get into contact with him for weeks then i just gave up and accepted it was over. He ended up contacting me a month later acting like everything was fine. He wanted to go out and have drinks i told him i would. He and i both seemed to have a great time. He ends up ignoring me again. I kept texting him trying to figure out what was wrong. He kept saying everything was fine and i said ok can we hang out again? He said maybe i was like why? He just kept saying maybe … our last conversation we had… i said what is wrong ? He said nothing is wrong everything is fine. I asked him why he keeps saying maybe. He said " maybe but i dont want to see you right now" i said why? He saix " im just not feeling it, if i wanted to date i would" i said why did you contact me less then a week ago wanting to go out? He said i didnt.. even though he did. So i said should i just move on or what? He said whatever you want to do. So i said that he was really confusing me and asked him if he had anything more to say before i move on? My messages were turning green so i panicked he blocked me and reacted irrationally. I said " omg did you block me? My messages are not going through. Even texted him on my work phone asking what was up. And called him twice ( please dont judge me i know it is pathetic i never was this type of girl before him) so he replied and said " Ok I'll block you now" then immedietly blocked me. He has never blocked me before since I have met him he will just ghost. Is this ths final discard aka " grand finale? Did i just push him too far? this has upset me so much its hard to even function.

The panic was real,

He loved my voice n had said he was drawn to me in ways he couldn't even explain

Becoz he didn't want me to leave home or be stressed with anything

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Also NOTE:

It was anything goes, just to get rid of each other permanently

I love him ( I love you John) n am so grateful that u agreed to do this for me.

Have you ever met someone and something seemed so unusual about them but you couldn't put your finger on what it was?

We planned for a date on Thursday early morning.

I felt seen n loved n enough n complete!!

It was like a bride waiting for the groom at the altar shaking n shivering unsure if he'd turn up or whether he changed his mind n that'd surely kill me.

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I couldn't reach him,no calls no texts ,no saying anything,no closure no reason ….

We became each other's focus project and aim.

I really longed for this man ,this specific stranger….he was making me feel things I had never felt before n I wanted to explore him,every bit of him…

I am so tired of ignorant people like you calling us far rights, why democrats is so educated, they take things from their own mouth, you guys are totalitarian party?

We both had the answers yet we only met on Sunday n because we couldn't wait any longer,

😊……………………….,

( If only he was in this platform,maybe one day he'll follow me here through the guidance of the devine n if it happens,listen to Luke combs (“ love you anyway” )

What are some ways to identify and avoid logical fallacies, such as straw man and red herring, in an argument?

Love n light.

He questioned why I loved him,

I want to recall 3 months later when things became bad n messy for us, 😢

How do I explain to my husband that my 19-year-old son has accidentally gotten me pregnant?

He thought I was doing okey without him not knowing it was a pretense

My heartbeats would increase, beat abnormally just to see a message from him n I'd reply quickly,

I never lost words to say to him

A Korean Stuido made Stellar Blade and Japanese stuido is remastering Lollipop Chainsaw. So why are western developers so aginst to cenvtunal female beauty?

I have no regrets 😊 😊

We didn't spare each other a bruise or blow,we felt it'd would make us hate each other n leave this bond n move on with our lives just like we had been doing in our previous relationships,

This few days had been feeling great,with high spirits n zest for life

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Didn't know he'd call/text again n also

None of it was working coz I still loved wanted n needed him n wasn't afraid to tell him exactly what he meant to me n this didn't go well with his plans n so he chose a replacement to either make me feel jealous n end our connection or for him to move on n forget me…

This was happening fast

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There'll be turbulence n I was hit by a physical skin disease, lost too much weight and depression strike….I too lost myself along with him

I started feeling empty little by little n whatever we were doing to each other was hurting n driving each other to the far edge,

But even on this one, he was unable to get me out of his system.

I remember when I met him, on a Sunday,

It has made me wiser,a more rounded human being,I know who I am ,am in love with the lady I see staring back at me in the mirror n I wanna take care of her n protect her at all cost

He even asked for my advise to move on like I had

It was too much of obsession,like cocaine high,

I acted like it was nothing but was so broken inside

He started to talk more n more about his wife,

Then came Tuesday,Doubled

That meant making difficult decisions even if one of us would be hurt

My body temperature unbalanced

He even joked about feeling like a teenager all over again

You could literally hear my heart beats from a mile

We could call each other n disconnect upon hearing that voice on the other side

I have kept the last quote you sent me n here it is;

Thank you for loving me wholly n selflessly

He'd tell me that he felt alone in “ this”

I was so so connected to the stranger and we both missed each other terribly

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SO,

At this moment,

The replacement was my lookalike

Waiting for him to arrive was like waiting for the biggest miracle of my life ,

Am living for this woman who has endured so much,to me,this woman is a hero n am so proud of her,she has beat all odds to be here today.

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He then again texted a good morning on Monday and we started talking from there,

It was in my happiest era

Live the life you can be proud of n if you find that you're not, you can try again.

I will always love you.

Confusion was at its peak n finally he run unable to sum up everything that was happening n this was the last thing my soul wasn't prepared for.

It was killing me every time I saw him with someone else but I had a lot of pride ,

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Apart physically but together spiritually and emotionally

He was coz he called to ask what that meant n I acted like I didn't care coz he too was seeing someone ,

It was a time of confusion n denial n betrayal,a test of our love which was to usher the greatest pain in human history……(the separation, running n chasing n the DNOTs).

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( if he didn't call or text me n if I was never to see him again, I'd have escaped the tf journey bcoz our first meeting didn't leave an impact at all)

Every man would be happy to have me n get married to me, all this, so I could leave him and have a life,

But every single night,past 3am,there we were, typing n deleting,unable to sleep thinking about each other,

Ours was a day well spent , n to meet again,that would be in his terms.

N I too felt like a girl who had hit adolescent, was undergoing puberty n infatuation all at the same time.

I need you to live even if that life won't be spent with me

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It was a period of confusion and learning more about this connection n journey that was starting

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May the hands of the devine keep you safe from danger

To my surprise,

Didn't think we'd be more, not one bit,

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Everything had gone.

N though, you might not know about tfs,

When you're loved right, you bloom!

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Still,it didn't work.

Keep going ,keep healing n keep the faith.

I radiated in all angles,I felt like an angel 😇 n I was astonishingly beautiful,I was glowing ,my heart had finally found it's match it was truly amazing

( Our connection was realized after that first call n texts that would follow)

When he realized he hadn't been himself for quite sometime n needed to breath n focus.

We stood there,looking at each other for a few minutes before hugging again n saying nothing at all,the kind of nothing that meant everything , n from that moment on,we became inseparable.

It's like my blood pressure was high

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Forever n ever n ever!

You will remain lost till you surrender n that was my escape which takes time effort n acceptance

Well,

His breathing over the phone,every sentence he made,the way he spoke….I fell hard for him n fast

I know u been through your fair share of tribulations

NOTE:

It's like this panic takes your grace n beauty reason we call it purging.

From Waking each other up to checking up on each other during the day, knowing if the other had eaten….I started trusting him,I knew where he would be n at what time of the day doing what n with who. I found no single fault in him,he was pure perfection.

The foundation of our love was built on Monday unknowingly.

To tell you the truth,3 days of talking to this man had us fall hopelessly in love n I knew deep in my soul that this was true love,

NOW,

U understand who we are in your own way

He made sure I didn't lack anything ,

I felt beautiful inside n out

That I was a beautiful woman

This journey has driven me closer to the devine n if that was its purpose,

For the Iove i wholeheartedly poured into you. I hope it has fueled you to purpose….something you can be proud of.

Knowing we're under the same sun is ENOUGH!!

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He complained about me messing up his life ,

I couldn't wait to reply to his messages whenever he sent them

Seeing him walk through the door,my heart jumped n I stood up to greet him ,we hugged n kissed n for as long as I'll live,I'll never be able to explain what happened in that very moment coz it had me asking him “ what is happening to me” and he corrected me by saying…..” to us” n I smiled 😀

Regarding my tf, the love he poured to me, will be enough to see me through a lifetime

He set me free n he was the catalyst for my rebirth

It's now 2025,a healed woman ,a blessed woman living her dreams ,not yet there but am progressing for sure.

You have 💯 changed this woman n I truly hope when it's time for you to step in the podium,

Am so proud of you n the man i know you've become,

Damn it There was something about his voice,so deep n so powerful!

Live long !!

It's like I had waited all my life to hear this voice

I'd rather when we were in the confusion mode coz at least I knew what he was thinking about n his feelings

He was the lamp through which I was able to see myself.

Though he wanted me out of his life ,he couldn't bear to see me with someone else

He had made mistakes in the last 3 months n he felt it was time to right them

We spent like a month trying all means to hurt each other.

Like a wild fire spreading fast

When your body want to purge all that enormous negative energy,

My heart was misbehaving n never in my life had I felt like this before.

But now,

I wish you nothing but the very best

He too became obsessed with me….. I could tell.

He became all I was living for, just to open my WhatsApp page n see him online my heart would skip a beat ,I felt like he saw me through,there was nowhere to hide .

I know you've accepted this love .

What I saw in him ,

I too looked for ways to make him jealous

From that good morning message,to calls during the day to hundreds of texts,we spent the whole of Monday together,he at the office and me at home but binded as one,connected by a fiery energy n all this seemed like a fairytale,a dream or a scripted movie …..it was a fantasy!

He started blaming me for so much ,he began looking for ways to end it,even if it meant making me feel bad provided I'd leave him.

I'd re-read our messages one by one n that became my passion,to look at his pictures,check whether he was online or a text from him,

He too loved me ,there was no second guessing

Didn't put any thought into it,

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He actually called to ask if I got home safe n that's when i saved his number,

I don't even know how to explain it,

You will be thankful grateful n changed.

When he realized who he was,

N when I typed those replies my fingers would tremble,my heart racing

It was mutual,we both knew it,there was no question about it.